Celebrant Guide to Prepare a Funeral Service Remembering, honouring and celebrating a life Funerals | Cremations | Headstones
How To Write A Eulogy/Tribute_______________ 3 Components of a Service__________________ 4-5 Example Of An Order Of Service_____________ 6 Poems___________________________________ 7-9 Poems For Family_______________________ 10-11 How To Write A Eulogy/Tribute When writing a eulogy, the most important thing to remember is to write from the heart and express what means the most to you. You can approach the eulogy in a purely chronological way, that is recounting the life of the person from birth to death. Alternatively, some people prefer to deliver a characterisation of the person and an overall picture of their loved one’s life. A eulogy can reflect on their life and include accomplishments, personality traits, and memorable stories. It should offer something by which to remember them. You can do this by telling stories about your loved one, sharing the happy Committal Readings________________________ 12 times, and even the sad, and funny or unusual things that happened in their life. Lighting Of Candle_________________________ 13 really like as a person, will help provide an interesting outline of the person’s life. Responsive Reading________________________ 13 Prayers____________________________________ 13 Religious Poems ________________________ 14-15 Scripture Readings_________________________ 16 Music Selections________________________ 17-19 Talking about these, and the enduring qualities which describe what they were While there is no set length, five to ten minutes is a good general guideline. Eulogies are different for everyone, but here are some points to consider: • Childhood: date and place of birth, parents and siblings, where they lived, schools attended • If applicable, where marriage took place and years of marriage. Details of children, their spouses, grandchildren and great grandchildren. • Stand out achievements, community work, voluntary work, or club involvement. • Employment history. • Sporting achievements, sports they were involved in and enjoyed watching. • Hobbies or interests, such as travel, fishing, craft, gardening etc. • Personal stories (What are your favourite memories?). • Life lessons passed on. • Much loved pets. • Personality traits or phrases they may have used often. • The impact that they had on your life. 2 3
Opportunity To Share (Optional) This is a time in the service when the celebrant will invite any guests to come and share their thoughts and memories of your loved one. W E WO R K CLO SE LY WIT H YOU TO DET ERMINE T HE STR UCTUR E O F TH E FUNERA L. BELOW A RE OPT IONS Slideshow (Optional) THAT YO U MIGH T LIKE TO INCLU DE IN T HE S ERVICE. We can compile your photo with music. The photos can be in chronological order or randomly arranged. Words of Comfort Opening Song This song is played at the commencement of the service. The Celebrant will share some words. Welcome & Introduction Reflection Song (Optional) A favourite song of your choosing can be included in the service. Some short words by the celebrant thanking everyone for their presence. Lighting a Candle (Optional) A nominated individual can be invited forward to light a candle in memory of your loved one. Poems (Optional) Floral Tribute (Optional) Celebrating THE LIFE OF PATRICIA Anne Wilson 1938 - 2024 LUKE BALL 1993 - 2024 JANNETTE Dean Damieson 1951 - 2024 Committal (Choose one) Themed Candles $50 In Loving Memory of PATRICIA JANETTE Norma Barnes Dean Damieson 1938 - 2024 1951 - 2024 A funeral poem is a part of many funerals. Whether religious or non-religious, they are a lovely way for you to say farewell to your loved one, and add a personal touch to any service. PATRICIA Anne Wilson They can be read by the celebrant conducting the ceremony, or a relative or friend of the family. 1938 - 2024 Prayer & Readings (Optional) Family and friends can be invited to place a flower or petals on the coffin. This is often combined with the reflection song. Celebrating THE LIFE OF BETTY Nola Wallis 1939 - 2024 JAMES Dean Doe 1935 - 2024 Celebrating The committal is a element of the service when your loved one is committed to their final resting place. It usually takes place at the graveside, or the crematorium and is read by the celebrant. THE LIFE OF CAROL Ann Lynch 1952 - 2024 Departure Song This song is played at the conclusion of the service as the guests are leaving the venue. Prayers can help those without words express their feelings and can be a source of comfort and peace in your time of grief. Eulogy / Tribute (Optional) This is a speech made to celebrate and honour the life of your loved one. Similar to the readings, the eulogy may be read by the celebrant officiating the ceremony, or by a family member or friend. You may also like to have tributes by other family members or friends. 4 5
Example Of An Order of Service 101. A GOLDEN HEART A golden heart stopped beating, hardworking hands at rest, it broke our hearts to see you go, God only takes the best. They say that memories are golden, well maybe that is true, but we never wanted memories, we only wanted you. Order of service Your life was love and labour, your love for your family true, you did your best for all of us, we will always remember you. OPE NI NG S ONG Unforgettable - Nat King Cole OPENING SONG choir singing & dancing WE L C-OME (Celebrant) We sat beside your bedside, our hearts were crushed and sore, we did our duty to the end, til’ we could do no more. W E L C O NG LIGHTIM E C ANDL E In tears we watched you sinking, we watched you fade away, and though our hearts were breaking, we knew you could not stay. EULOGY P OE M of Catherine Earnshaw sister Remember Me P R AY E R opening Y E U LO G remarks SLIDESHOW PR SLIDESHOW & E S E N TAT I O N PRESENTATION choir - singing dancing Dancing In The Sky - Lizzy and Dani Jealous C T I O N S O N G - Donna Taggart R E F L E of The Angels choir - singing & dancing WOR DS OF C OMFORT (Celebrant) POEM final viewing recessional RE F LEC TION S ONG The RoseTAL C O M M I - Bette Midler D E PAR T U TAL N G C OMMI T R E S O (Celebrant) choir - singing & dancing Afterglow DE PARTURE S ONG My Way - Frank Sinatra Gone from home that smiling face, those cheerful, happy ways, the heart that won so many friends, in bygone, happy days. We want to tell you something, so there won’t be any doubt, you’re so wonderful to think of, but so hard to live without. We cannot bring the old days back when we were all together. The family chain is broken now, but memories live forever. 105. AFTERGLOW Our lips cannot speak how we loved you; our hearts cannot tell what to say, but God only knows how we miss you, in our home that is lonely today. I’d like the memory of me to be a happy one. I’d like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done. I’d like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways of happy times and laughing times and bright and summer days. I’d like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun of happy memories that I leave when life is done. 102. HER SMILE (HIS SMILE) 106. FEEL NO GUILT IN LAUGHTER Though her/his smile is gone forever and her/ his hand I cannot touch. I still have so many memories of the one I loved so much. Her/His THE LORD’S PRAYER is now my keepsake with which I’ll never memory part. God has her/his in his keeping, I have her/ Our Father who art in heaven, hallowedheart. name, his in my be thy thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread IF ROSES GROW IN HEAVEN 103. and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us If roses grow in heaven Lord, and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. please pick a For thine is the kingdom, the power, bunch for me. Place them in and the glory forever and ever. Amen. my father/mother’s arms and tell his/her they’re from me. Tell his/her I love his/her and miss his/her, and when he/she turns to smile, place a kiss upon his/her cheek and hold his/her for a while. Because remembering his/her is easy, I do it every day but there is an ache within my heart that will never go away. 104. THEY SAY THERE IS A REASON They say there is a reason, they say that time will heal but neither time nor reason, will change the way we feel. 6 For no-one knows the heartache, that lies behind our smiles, no-one knows how many times, we have broken down and cried. Feel no guilt in laughter, he/she’d know how much you care. Feel no sorrow in a smile, that he/she is not here to share. You cannot grieve forever; he/she would not want you to. He/She’d hope that you could carry on the way you always do. So, talk about the good times and the way you showed you cared, the days you spent together, all the happiness you shared. Let memories surround you, a word someone may say; will suddenly recapture; a time, an hour, a day. That brings him/her back as clearly; as though he/she were still here; and fills you with the feeling; that he/she is always near. For if you keep those moments, you will never be apart; and he/she will live forever; locked safely within your heart. 7
110. YOU NEVER SAID GOODBYE 113. GOLF COURSE IN THE SKY 116. NOTHING IS THE SAME Remember me with love in your heart as I will too, with the love you impart. Remember me as I was all my days, all my faults too, my funny old ways. You never said I’m leaving you never said goodbye. You were gone before I knew it, and only God knew why. As eighteen flags flew at half mast, and glasses were soberly raised high. The latest member was having a ball at the golf course in the sky. Our lives go on without you, but nothing is the same. We have to hide our heartache, when someone speaks your name. A million times I needed you, a million times I cried. If love alone could have saved you, you never would have died. Freed from the gravity of the situation the first tee shot soared through space. Bringing a wondrous, beaming smile to a kind, down to earth face. In life I loved you dearly, in death I love you still in my heart you hold a place, that no one could ever fill. Surrounded by old club friends once thought never to be seen again. The infinity course beckoned ahead eighteen holes were for mere mortal men. Remember me with a smile or laughter then you’ll remember me forever after. Then in heaven I’ll smile along too, remember my thought it’s sweetly true. Whatever thought comes into your heart, remember as an angel my love I impart. Let your days ahead be filled with love until we meet again in heaven above. 108. FAREWELL MY FRIENDS It was beautiful as long as it lasted the journey of my life, I have no regrets whatsoever save the pain I’ll leave behind. Those dear hearts who love and care and the strings pulling at the heart and soul, the strong arms that held me up when my own strength let me down. At every turning of my life, I came across good friends, friends who stood by me, even when the time raced me by. Farewell, farewell, my friends I smile and bid you goodbye. No, shed no tears for I need them not all I need is your smile. If you feel sad do think of me for that’s what I’ll like when you live in the hearts of those you love, remember then you never die. 109. MISS ME, BUT LET ME GO When I come to the end of the road, and the sun has set for me, I want no rites in a gloom filled room why cry for a soul set free? Miss me a little – but not for long, and not with your head bowed low. Remember the love that once we shared. Miss me but let me go. For this is a journey we must all take and each must go alone. It’s all part of the master plan, a step on the road to home. When you are lonely and sick at heart, go to the friends we know, laugh at all the things we used to do. Miss me but let me go. 8 It broke my heart to lose you, but you didn’t go alone. For part of me went with you, the day God took you home. 111. YOU MEANT SO MUCH You meant so much to all of us you were special and that’s no lie. You brightened up the darkest day and the cloudiest of sky. Your smile alone warmed hearts, your laugh was like music to hear. I would give absolutely anything to have you well and standing near. Not a second passes when you’re not on our minds, your love we will never forget the hurt will ease in time. Many tears I have seen cried; they have all poured out like rain. I know that you are happy now and no longer in any pain. 112. DON’T BE TOO SAD Don’t be too sad, I’ve lived my life, I’ve tried my best. The memories I hold dear are experiences I’ve known of happiness and tears. The love of family, the care of friends, and the good times I’ve shared, right to the end. I’ve travelled life’s by-ways, seen children grow up. Experienced life’s living and drunk from love’s cup. I leave you now, with memories and thoughts of you all. I’m no longer with you but your mind will recall the good times we shared and the laughter we’ve had. Please, cherish these memories and don’t be too sad. 114. GONE FISHIN’ I’ve finished life’s chores assigned to me, so put me on a boat headed out to sea. Please send along my fishing pole for I’ve been invited to the fishin’ hole. Where every day is a day to fish, to fill your heart with every wish. Don’t worry or feel sad for me, I’m fishin’ with the Master of the sea. We will miss each other for a while, but you will come and bring your smile. That won’t be long you will see, till we’re together you and me. To all of those that think of me be happy as I go out to sea. If others wonder why I’m missin’ just tell ‘em I’ve gone fishin’. 115. WEEP NOT FOR ME Weep not for me though I am gone into that gentle night. Grieve if you will, but not for long upon my soul’s sweet flight. Sad are the hearts that love you, silent are the tears that fall, living without you; is the hardest part of all. You did so many things for us, your heart was so kind and true, and when we needed someone, we could always count on you. The special years will not return when we are all together but with the love in our hearts, you walk with us forever. 117. WHEN I COME TO THE END OF THE HORIZON When I come to the end of the horizon and enter the other shore. Remember me with fondness cry for me no more. I have found my final resting place, that special spot to fish. Remember the times we shared you too, I will miss. This is the journey I must take, and I must go alone. Know that my heart is with you, as I take this journey home. To that final fishing hole for fisherman like me. To tell the biggest tales about the one that got free. Remember me with fondness this is not goodbye. It is “till we meet again” at the fishing hole in the sky I am at peace, my soul’s at rest there is no need for tears. For with your love I was so blessed for all those many years. There is no pain, I suffered not, the fear now all is gone. Put now these things out of your thoughts in your memory I live on. Remember not my fight for breath remember not the strife. Please do not dwell upon my death, but celebrate my life. 9
118. LEGACY OF LOVE A wife/husband, a mother/father, a grandmother/grandfather too, this is the legacy we have from you. You taught us love and how to fight, you gave us strength, you gave us might. A stronger person would be hard to find and in your heart, you were always kind. You fought for us all in one way or another, not just as a wife/husband not just as a mother/father. For all of us you gave your best, now the time has come for you to rest. So go in peace, you’ve earned your sleep, your love in our hearts, we’ll eternally keep. 119. ODE TO DAD He never looked for praises he was never one to boast, he just went on quietly working and fishing he loved the most. His dreams were seldom spoken, his wants were very few and most of the time his worries went unspoken too. He was just there, a firm foundation through all our storms of life, a sturdy hand to hold onto in times of stress and strife. A true friend we could turn to when times were good or bad, one of our greatest blessings the man that we called Dad. 120. GRANDFATHER KEPT A GARDEN Our Grandfather kept a garden. A garden of the heart. He planted all the good things, that gave our lives their start. He turned us to the sunshine, and encouraged us to dream; fostering and nurturing; the seeds of self-esteem. We are our grandfather’s garden; we are his legacy. Thank you so much grandfather, we love you and always will. 121. NANA To my dearest darling Nana, up in Heaven, high above, I know today you’re with us all, and sending all your love. Today we all remember you, and bid you one last goodbye, celebrate the life you’ve had and maybe have a cry. You’ll never be forgotten Nan, I’ll just close my eyes and see, your smiling face and feel your love, and you’ll be close to me. You had such a long life, so many have so less. It was your time, the angels came; and placed you with the best. So dear Nana, up above although you’re no longer here, in my heart is where I’ll keep you, forever, you’ll be near. 122. IN LOVING MEMORY OF A SPECIAL BROTHER Brother, since you passed away life just hasn’t been the same, I would move heaven and earth to have you here with me again. The time we spent together meant the world to me, I have many treasured memories as we grew up together, happily. I’m so grateful for the years we had and the closeness that we shared, your thoughtfulness and loyalty and the way you always cared. You were a wonderful brother, I miss you no end, you were more than just my family you were a kind and supportive friend. I know I cannot bring you back although I wish it everyday, but a piece of me went with you the day you went away. 124. IN LOVING MEMORY OF MY BELOVED WIFE It broke my heart to lose you, you have left an empty space the love we had together cannot ever be replaced. I will never forget you, all the happy times we shared the joy you brought into my life can never be compared. You’re with me every moment not that we’re apart living on in precious memories like keepsakes in my heart. I miss you more than words can say, my beautiful, wonderful wife only time can heal my pain you were the one true love of my life. 125. LOVING MEMORY OF A HUSBAND Husband, you are my world, you meant everything to me, the love I have for you now; will last eternally. I miss your warmth, I miss your strength I miss your lovely smile, I wish I could see your face again even for a little while. Thank you, your devoted love; that helps me, through each day; and for all the precious memories; that will never fade away. I hope that you have felt at peace since we said goodbye, in my heart I know that we will be together again in time. 123. IN LOVING MEMORY OF A SPECIAL SISTER And then the winds and rain came, he protected us enough, but not too much because he knew; we would stand up strong and tough. The day you left and gained your wings my heart just broke in two, I wish you could have stayed with me but heaven needed you. His constant good example; always taught us right from wrong; markers for our pathway; that will last a lifetime long. 10 You were a very special person with kindness in your heart, and the love that we had together grows stronger now we’re apart. You left me with the memories and I love you dearly still, no matter how much times goes by you know I always will. 11
(Please choose one) 401. We are here to return the elements that made up the body of (name) to the earth; earth, air, fire and water, joined by the ligaments of the spirit, the bindings of life and love. Ashes to ashes, dust to dust, memory to memory, story to story, gratitude to gratitude, spirit to spirit, love to love. 402. IRISH BLESSING May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind be always at your back, may the sun shine warm upon your face, may the rains fall soft upon fields and until we meet again may God hold you in the palm of his hand. 403. Tenderly, lovingly and reverently we commit the spirit and body of (name in full) to a more peaceful place. We give thanks for your life and for your (number) years of love, friendship, and your memories. We now say farewell and may you rest in peace. Thank you (name) 404. As we prepare to leave, let us entrust (name’s) body to the earth from which they came. All life is formed of earth and returns to the bosom of Mother Nature; earth to earth, dust to dust, ashes to ashes. We commend (name) to our memory and our hearts. May you rest in peace. 405. We honour your journey through life and remember with gratitude your deep love for your children, family and friends. We are grateful that you have been a part of our lives but we now wish you well on your final journey. May you travel safely and know that our love goes with you. 406. We lovingly and reverently return your body to the elements from which it came. Ashes to ashes, dust to dust, we leave you now in peace and are grateful you were in our lives. 407. There is no answer to death but to live and to live life to the fullest. We give our respect and dignity to (name). He/She has left us with a great legacy and his/her life will live on through us. The best of all answers to death is the continuing affirmation of life. Now for us the living, may the love of friends, the joy of memories and our hopes for the future give us strength and peace that we may go forward together until a new day breaks and the shadows disappear. 408. We thank you (name) for everything you were and all that you gave, and may you now forever rest in peace with the certain knowledge that you were, are, and will always be dearly loved and deeply missed. 12 409. For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant and a time to pluck up what is planted; a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn and a time to dance. A time to keep silent and a time to speak. May you rest in peace (name). Lighting of Candle At the beginning of the year and at its end. We Remember You (All) 201. At this time we remember (name) . This candle represents our grief, the pain of losing you, but it also reminds us of the depth of our love for you. As long as we live, they too will live; for they are now a part of us. We Remember You (All) 410. And now as God our Father has allowed our brother/sister (name) to be taken from us we now commit his/her body to the grave; ashes to ashes, dust to dust, in the sure and certainty to the resurrection of eternal life through our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen. 202. This candle is in your memory, the times we laughed, the times we cried, and the caring and joy you gave to us. The light of your life can never be extinguished in the hearts of those who knew and loved you. 411. Tenderly and with honour and appreciation we remember the life of (name). He/she is now beyond harm, fear and pain. Here in this last rite, we commit his/her body to the elements. May you rest in peace. 412. (Name) we feel privileged that you lived. We grieve that you are no longer with us. But we know that you will live on in our hearts, lives and memories. We remember with gratitude your character and all your qualities. We thank you for your love and friendship. And now with love we leave you in peace. And with respect we bid you farewell. 413. As we share this moment together, it is with love and unity that we acknowledge what you brought to each of the lives here today. You will always remain in the hearts of all those who love you and it will be this love that drives us on, until we meet again. Until that day (name) your ability to shine in the darkest moments shall continue to light our way. We embrace all those wonderful times that we had today as we simply say thank you and bid you farewell. 414. ONE AT REST Think of me as one at rest, for me you should not weep, I have no pain no troubled thoughts for I am just asleep. The living thinking me that was is now forever still, and life goes on without me now, as time forever will. If your heart is heavy now because I’ve gone away, dwell not long upon it friend for none of us can stay. Those of you who liked me I sincerely thank you all, and those of you who loved me, I thank you most of all. And in my fleeting lifespan, as time went rushing by, I found some time to hesitate, to laugh, to love, to cry. 203. We light a candle in honour at this sacred time as we grieve the loss of (name). We acknowledge our grief and the depth of our love and that our tears are a testament to the special relationship that we shared with you. 204. We light a candle to celebrate the memories of (name) and know that they will always remain in our hearts. We give thanks for your life and remember your laughter, smile and the love that you shared with us. 205. We light a candle to reflect on the many ways that (name) helped shape our lives and bring out the best in us. Day by day we cherish the special place in our hearts that will always be reserved for you. We thank you for the gift your living brought to each of us. 206. This candle is the light of hope. It reminds us of the love and the memories of you that are ours forever. May the glow of the flame be our source of hopefulness now and forever. We will always love you. Responsive Reading At the rising of the sun and its going down. We Remember You (All) At the blowing of the wind and in the chill of winter. We Remember You (All) At the opening of the buds and in the rebirth of spring. We Remember You (All) At the shining of the sun and in the warmth of the summer. We Remember You (All) At the rustling of the leaves and in the beauty of autumn. We Remember You (All) When we are weary and in need of strength. We Remember You (All) When we are lost and sick at heart. We Remember You (All) When we have joys we crave to share. We Remember You (All) When we have decisions that are difficult to make. We Remember You (All) When we have achievements that are based on theirs. We Remember You (All) As long as we live, they too will live for they are now a part of us. We Remember You (All) Prayers 301. Dear Lord, we gather here today to remember the precious life of (name). We also gather to say farewell and celebrate the life that he/she has enjoyed here on earth and thank you for each precious moment and memory that we have had with him/her. His/her life has touched so many people in so many different ways. We pray that your peace and presence will be upon us during this time, and we pray this in your name. Amen. 302. Dear Heavenly Father, we come to you at this time when our hearts are heavy with sorrow, for you promise to be our refuge and strength. We thank you for (name) and for all that he/she has meant to those who love him/her and now as we celebrate his/her life and entrust him/her to your mercy we pray you will speak the word of comfort to those who mourn here today. Surround them with your unfailing love, and may your peace be theirs in this time of loss. Grant them courage and strength to face the days ahead, and in moments of loneliness may they be aware of your supporting care. We pray these things in your precious name. Amen. 303. I thank you Lord God for your comfort and protection that you provide for us. May we all look to you for comfort at this time of grief and sadness. I pray that you would bless the family with your peace and love at this time and may they know that you are close by their side now and forevermore. Amen. 13
our respects to (name) we pray that we will be able to feel your presence around us, that your protecting arms will be around those grieving at this time. We in particular think of the family and friends here today, we pray that you will come close to each of them and help them through this time. We know that in your word you have promised us a better place which you have prepared, and we can take comfort in knowing that (name) is at peace, free from the sufferings of our human world and we would ask those of us bowed before you that we may find strength, comfort and peace in you. 305. God, we gather today to celebrate the life of (name). We celebrate a life of love and integrity and grace, a life that was a legacy to those left behind. May this not be a day of mourning, but a day of celebration for a life that touched us all. We celebrate the memories we will always have. Bless this gathering today, Father, as we give thanks for having (name) in our lives. 306. Dear Heavenly Father, thank you for (name’s) life, and all the years we shared with him/her. We lift him/her to you today, in honour of the good we saw in him/her and the love we felt from him/ her. Please give us the strength to leave him/ her in your care, in the knowledge of eternal life through Jesus Christ. 307. Dear Heavenly Father, as we gather here to mourn our beloved, (name), may you bring healing into our hearts. Let the things we share about (name) bring joy and healing in our hearts. We thank you for giving us a chance to spend time with (name) while he/she was on earth. 308. Father God, we open this funeral service with sorrow, and yet we give thanks for (name) now free from the pain and suffering of this world. As we join together to celebrate (name’s) life direct our thoughts to fond memories of our departed friend and family member. Let us speak of the ways (name) has impacted our lives. And let us be grateful, knowing that his/her life was a life well-lived. Amen. 309. THE LORD’S PRAYER Our Father, who art in heaven hallowed be thy name, thy kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil for thine is the kingdom the power and the glory for ever and ever. Amen. 14 Religious Poems 501. FOOTPRINTS IN THE SAND One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one belonging to him, and the other to the Lord. When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life. This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it: “Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you, you’d walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, I don’t understand why when I needed you most you would leave me.” The Lord replied: “My son, my precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you saw only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you.” 502. WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME When tomorrow starts without me, and I’m not here to see; If the sun should rise and find your eyes, all filled with tears for me. I wish you wouldn’t cry, the way you did today, while thinking of the many things, we did not get to say. I know how much you love me, as much as I love you. Each time that you think of me, I know you will miss me too. When tomorrow starts without me, please try to understand, that an angel came and called my name and took me by the hand. The angel said my place was ready, in heaven far above, and that I would have to leave behind, all those I dearly love. But when I walked through heaven’s gates, I felt so much at home, when God looked down and smiled at me, from his golden throne. He said this is Eternity, and all I promised you, today for life on earth is done, but here it starts anew. I promise no tomorrow, for today will always last, and since each day’s the exact same way, there is no longing for the past. So when tomorrow starts without me, do not think we’re apart, for every time you think of me, remember I’m right here in your heart. 503 THE FINAL FLIGHT Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free, I’m following the path God laid for me. I took his hand when I heard his call, I turned my back and left it all. I could not stay another day, to laugh, to love, to work, to play. Tasks left undone must stay that way, I’ve found that peace at the end of the day. If my parting has left a void, then fill it with remembered joy. A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss, ah, yes, these things too I will miss. Be not burdened with times of sorrow, I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow. My life’s been full, I’ve savoured much, good friends, good times, a loved one’s touch. Perhaps my time seemed all too brief, don’t lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your heart and share with me, God wanted me now, He set me free. 504. COME WITH ME 505. GOD’S GARDEN God looked around his garden and he found an empty place. And then he looked down upon the earth and saw your tired face. He put his arms around you and lifted you to rest. God’s garden must be beautiful, he always takes the best. He knew that you were suffering, he knew you were in pain, he knew that you would never get well on earth again. He saw the road was getting rough, and the hills were hard to climb. So, he closed your weary eyelids, and whispered “Peace be thine”. It broke our hearts to lose you, but you didn’t go alone. For part of us went with you, the day God called you home. 506. I’M SENDING A DOVE TO HEAVEN I’m sending a dove to heaven with a parcel on its wing, be careful when you open it, it’s full of beautiful things. Inside are a million kisses, wrapped up in a million hugs. To say how much I miss you, and to send you all my love. I hold you close within my heart and there you will remain. To walk with me throughout my life, until we meet again. God saw you getting tired, and a cure was not to be. So, he put his arms around you and whispered, “Come with me”. With tearful eyes we watched you, slowly fade away, although we loved you dearly, we could not make you stay. A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest, God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best. You suffered much in silence, your spirit did not bend, you faced your pain with courage until the very end. You tried so hard to stay with us, but your fight was not in vain. God took you to his loving home and freed you from your pain. 15
Eagle Rock...............................................Daddy Cool Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going.” Thomas said to him, “Lord, we don’t know where you are going, so how can we know the way?” Jesus answered, “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. If you really know me, you will know my Father as well. From now on, you do know him and have seen him.” Abide With Me........................................Susan Boyle Edelweiss...........................................Michael Siberry Always.................................................. Ella Fitzgerald Everglow.......................................................Cold Play Always.................................................... Jon Bon Jovi Everybody Hurts............................................... R.E.M. Always On My Mind...............................Elvis Presley Eye Of The Tiger............................................Survivor 605. PSALM 23 - THE GOOD SHEPHERD Angels Brought Me Here ................. Guy Sebastion (A psalm by David – Contemporary version) April Sun In Cuba............................................Dragon Go Rest High On That Mountain...............Vince Gill You, LORD, are my shepherd. I will never be in need. You let me rest in fields of green grass. You lead me to streams of peaceful water, and you refresh my life. You are true to your name, and you lead me along the right paths. I may walk through valleys as dark as death, but I won’t be afraid. You are with me, and your shepherd’s rod[a] makes me feel safe. You treat me to a feast, while my enemies watch. You honor me as your guest, and you fill my cup until it overflows. Your kindness and love will always be with me each day of my life, and I will live forever in your house, LORD. Auld Lang Syne.......................................Susan Boyle Going Home................................... Daniel O’donnell Ava Maria............................................ Andrea Bocelli Green Green Grass Of Home......... Merle Haggard Scripture Readings 604. JOHN 14:1-7 601. ECCLESIASTES 3:1-8 There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing, a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace. 602. PSALM 121 I lift up my eyes to the mountains where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth. He will not let your foot slip he who watches over you will not slumber; indeed, he who watches over Israel will neither slumber nor sleep. The Lord watches over you the Lord is your shade at your right hand; the sun will not harm you by day, nor the moon by night. The Lord will keep you from all harm he will watch over your life; the Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore. 603. PSALM 23 The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing. He makes me lie down in the green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he restores my soul, he guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me. Your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil, my cup overflows. Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell In the house of the Lord forever. Jesus Comforts His Disciples Edelweiss.................................................. Andre Rieu Amazing Grace.......................................Susan Boyle Amazing Grace.................................. Celtic Thunder Far Away..................................................Knickleback Amazing Grace.......................................Elvis Presley Fathers & Daughters.........................Michael Bolton Amazing Grace..................................... Mark Vincent Father & Son............................................ Cat Stevens Amazing Grace.............. The Royal Scots Dragoon Guards Fix You...........................................................Cold Play Angel............................................... Sarah McLachlan Forever Together................................... Randy Travis Angels...............................................Robbie Williams Forever Young.........................................Rod Stewart Green Green Grass Of Home........... Foster & Allen Back In Black....................................................AC/DC Because You Love Me............................ Celine Dion Hallelujah....................................................... k.d. lang Beautiful Day........................................................... U2 He Ain’t Heavy He’s My Brother..............The Hollies Blue Skies...............................................Willie Nelson Heaven Was Needing A Hero........ Jo Dee Messina Bohemian Rhapsody....................................... Queen Here Comes The Sun..............................The Beatles Bridge Over Troubled Water......................Simon & Garfunkel House Of The Rising Sun.................... Eric Bourdon Brown Eyed Girl....................................Van Morrison How Am I Supposed To Live Without You.......Michael Bolton How Do I Live..................................Trisha Yearwood Candle In The Wind................................. Elton John How Do I Say Goodbye.......................... Dean Lewis Cat’s In The Cradle................................. Cat Stevens How Great Thou Art............................. Alan Jackson Chasing Cars........................................... Snow Patrol How Great Thou Art...................................Chris Rice Come Away With Me............................Norah Jones Come Fly With Me................................ Frank Sinatra If Tomorrow Never Comes................Ronan Keating Crystal Chandeliers............................. Charley Pride I Hope You Dance...............................Ronan Keating I Hope You Dance......................... Lee Ann Womack I Knew I Loved You........................... Savage Garden Dancing In The Dark.................. Bruce Springsteen I’ll Be Seeing You........................................ Vera Lynn Dancing In The Sky.................................Dani & Lizzy I’ll Walk With God.........................Michael Crawford Dancing Queen.................................................ABBA Imagine.................................................. John Lennon Danny Boy....................................... Daniel O’donnell In The Sweet By & By............................Willie Nelson Diamonds....................................................... Rihanna It Is Well With My Soul........................Audrey Assad Don’t Dream It’s Over.................... Crowded House It’s Five O’clock Somewhere............... Alan Jackson Do You Remember.............................. Jack Johnson It’s Hard To Leave.....................Judith Durham & The Seekers Don’t Leave Me This Way........... The Communards 16 Dance With My Father....................Luther Vandross I’ve Been Loved By The Best...............Don Williams 17
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