already a triumph. I offer you this book not only as a guide to crafting your own code, but also as an invitation to know me. I honor your willingness to step into my world and understand who I am. Manisha D. Darmwardana
1. LIFE …………………………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 3 2. ENEMIES ……………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 21 3. GOD …………………………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 4. FAMILY ………………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 5. OWN IMAGE ……………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 6. HEALTH ……………………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 7. FRIENDSHIP ……………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 8. LOVE ………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 9. INTIMACY …………………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 10. HATE ………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 11. BUSINESS …………………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 12. MONEY ………………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 13. DEPENDENCE …………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 14. HOPE …………………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 15. DREAM ………………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 16. ATTRACTION & ACCIDENTS ……………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 17. GESTURES …………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 18. EDUCATION ……………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 19. POWER ………………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 20. DARK EMOTIONS ………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 21. SOCIETY ……………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 22. CHILDHOOD TRAUMA ……………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 23. INSURANCE ……………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 24. BOOKS ………………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 25. SOCIALISM IN PERSON ………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 26. SOCIALISM IN INTERNET ………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 27. DOCTORS ………………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 28. GRIEF ……………………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 29. FOOD AND DRINKS ……………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 30. LUXURY ……………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 31. GENDER: WOMAN & MAN ………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 32. BOND ……………………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 33. FREEDOM …………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 34. CRUSH ……………………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 35. BOUNDARIES ……………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 36. SKILLS ……………………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 37. WORKOUT …………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 38. OPINION VS FACTS ……………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 39. WEAPONS …………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 40. MISSION & BATTLES …………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 1
42. HAIR AND MAKEUP …………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 43. JEWELRY ……………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 44. BEAUTY TREATMENTS ……………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 45. MEDICINE …………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 46. FAVOURITE FILMS/CHARACTERS ……………………………………………………………….. PAGE 47. TITLES ………………………………………………………………………………………………………. PAGE 48. CEMETERY ………………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 49. SECRETS …………………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 50. CHOICES …………………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 51. CLOTHES ………………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 52. MATERIALISM …………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 53. NATURE …………………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 54. DNA ………………………………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 55. SYMBOLS / OBJECTS ………………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 56. KNOWLEDGE / KNOWING ………………………………………………………………………….. PAGE 57. FUTURE / TRAJECTORIES …………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 58. HISTORY / MYTHOLOGY / NARRATIVE ………………………………………………………… PAGE 59. ART / CREATIVITY ……………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 60. TECHNOLOGY …………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 61. FANTASY …………………………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 62. PLACES / LOCATIONS ………………………………………………………………………………… PAGE 2
1. Life rarely reveals its intentions upfront. It prefers to whisper in riddles, letting only the patient discover that every blessing carries a shadow… and every shadow hides an opportunity. 2. People claim to seek the truth, yet most run from it the moment it stares back. For truth does not comfort—it exposes. 3. A person’s character is never shown in victory. It is in the quiet moments, when no one applauds, that the soul betrays its true allegiance. 4. Some wounds fade with time. Others simply learn to disguise themselves as strength. 5. Life rewards those who learn to observe before they act. The loudest room is often ruled by the one who speaks last. 6. Humanity lives between two mirrors: one reflecting who they are, the other projecting who they pretend to be. Most never dare look into the first. 7. Every choice writes a sentence in the story of a life… but it is the consequences that decide the genre. 3
Peace is rarely found; it is negotiated. And the harshest negotiations are always with oneself. 9. The world does not demand perfection—only consistency. And consistency, ironically, is the rarest of virtues. 10. Life never asks for permission to change. It simply shifts the ground beneath one’s feet, leaving only two options: adapt… or cling to ruins that no longer exist. 11. Life has a talent for exposing the cracks in one’s armor. It waits for silence, then presses exactly where the truth is weakest. 12. People fear endings, yet every beginning demands one. Creation is always built on the ashes of something that came before. 13. The world often mistakes noise for strength. But real power moves quietly, disrupting everything without announcing anything. 14. Time does not heal all wounds—it merely teaches them to whisper instead of scream. 15. There is a moment in every life when innocence dies. Not tragically… but inevitably, like a candle that realizes the room was never dark. 16. Life rarely punishes the guilty at the right moment. Its justice arrives late, disguised as coincidence. 17. Most people avoid their own reflection—not out of vanity, but out of fear they might recognize themselves too clearly. 18. Growth is the art of outgrowing the person you once needed to be. 4
Some lessons arrive gently. Others break the door just to make sure you’re listening. 20. Life grants wisdom, but only to those willing to lose something first. 21. People romanticize resilience, forgetting it is born from battles no one wanted to fight. 22. The most dangerous illusions are the ones we create to survive. They protect us—until the day they don’t. 23. Forgiveness is not a virtue; it is a negotiation. And some debts are too costly to settle. 24. Every crossroads reveals a secret: the path chosen matters less than the person who chooses it. 25. Strength is measured not by what one endures, but by what one refuses to carry forward. 26. Life’s greatest irony is that clarity arrives only after the choices have been made. 27. People seek stability, yet cling to the very chaos that broke them. Familiar pain often feels safer than unfamiliar peace. 28. Sometimes the universe whispers. Sometimes it removes everything, simply to force understanding. 29. Not all transformations are visible. Some occur quietly, in the unspoken shift between who someone was… and who they no longer wish to be. 30. Life offers two currencies: time and attention. The tragedy is that most spend both on what was never worthy. 5
The truth rarely arrives dressed in beauty. More often, it comes wrapped in discomfort, asking to be acknowledged rather than admired. 32. People speak of destiny as if it were a path. But destiny is a mirror—revealing only what we refuse to see in ourselves. 33. When life closes a door, it rarely opens a window. Instead, it asks whether you’re courageous enough to build your own. 34. Silence is not empty. It is a courtroom where every unspoken thought stands trial. 35. Some storms don’t come to test you. They come to identify you. 36. Peace is not the absence of conflict. It is the choice to stop attending wars that no longer belong to you. 37. Life does not break people at random. It applies pressure precisely where change is overdue. 38. Most regrets are not about the wrong decisions. They come from the moments we stayed silent when our soul begged us to speak. 39. The world rewards those who adapt— but it bows to those who reinvent. 40. Every person carries a story they are terrified to re-read. 41. Truth and pain share a common trait: both demand to be felt before they can be understood. 6
Life tests loyalty by offering temptation disguised as opportunity. 43. Not every wound seeks healing. Some exist simply to remind you where your boundaries should have been. 44. Strength is not surviving what happened. It is refusing to let it change who you decide to become afterward. 45. Life reveals people during three moments: when they desire something, when they lose something, and when they think no one is watching. 46. People fear the truth not because it hurts, but because it demands responsibility. 47. Some endings feel like failure, until time reveals they were the only way out. 48. The world doesn’t punish naivety— it simply charges interest on it. 49. You don’t lose yourself all at once. You disappear in small compromises made to please the wrong people. 50. Life will keep repeating the same lesson until you stop mistaking comfort for safety. 51. Boundaries are not walls. They are doors—meant to open, but only for those who knock with respect. 52. People rarely betray you suddenly. They rehearse their betrayal through tiny acts you chose to overlook. 7
Hope is both a healer and a hazard. In excess, it blinds more effectively than fear. 54. Life doesn’t give warnings; it gives consequences. 55. Some truths free you. Others destroy every version of you that was built on a lie. 56. The future is not shaped by wishes. It is shaped by the courage to abandon what no longer fits. 57. Pain is a poor teacher, yet its lessons are remembered long after comfort is forgotten. 58. Most people seek meaning, but settle for distraction. 59. Life is not a journey toward who you are— it is a negotiation between who you were and who you refuse to be. 60. Every transformation begins with a decision: to stop apologizing for becoming someone stronger. 61. People claim they want honesty, yet most only tolerate the version that flatters them. 62. Life does not remove people to protect you. It removes illusions you were too loyal to keep. 63. Confidence is not loud. It is the quiet certainty that you no longer need permission to exist. 8
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